For Facilitators DJs Organisers

If you're thinking about running one, good.

Onizal is open source. The philosophy, the five phases, the exercises, the music guidance. Take what resonates. Leave what doesn't. Build your own version.

Ecstatic dance facilitation is the practice of holding a freeform group dance with music, consent agreements, and somatic awareness. The Onizal framework structures this into five phases across roughly two hours.

If you're a DJ, facilitator, or community organiser thinking about running something like this in your space, good. That's why this site exists.

Onizal is open source. Everything here is given freely. The philosophy, the five phases, the exercises, the music guidance. Take what resonates. Leave what doesn't. Build your own version.

The only thing I ask: credit the traditions this draws from. They're older than any of us.

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Where to start

You don't need a certification. You don't need permission. You need a space, a speaker, and the willingness to hold a room.

Here's the reading order I'd suggest:

1. The philosophy — start here

Read the manifesto first. Understand the why before the how. If the philosophy doesn't resonate with you, the format won't either. And that's fine. There are many ways to do ecstatic dance. This is one.

2. The five phases — the structure

Read the section intros in order:

Each section has chapters with specific exercises. You don't need all of them. Pick the ones that feel right for your group. A first session can be simple: one opening ritual, one or two solo exercises, one partner exercise, the dance, and a quiet close.

3. The music — if you're DJing

The Wave explains the seven-stage energy arc. The Sonic Palette maps 15 genres to the journey. DJ Craft covers gear, mixing, and the philosophy of DJing for ecstatic dance.

Start small. Ten people in a living room is already a circle.
— How to start small —

What you actually need for your first Onizal Dance.

Your first session can be ten people in a living room. Here's the kit.

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Requirement One
A space
Any room where people can move freely. Minimum about 3 sqm per person. Wooden floor or carpet (people dance barefoot). If you can dim the lights, even better. Candles help. Living rooms, yoga studios, community halls, warehouses, outdoor covered spaces. I've seen beautiful sessions in garages.
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Requirement Two
Sound
A decent Bluetooth speaker works for groups under 15. For 15–50, a small PA (one powered speaker + a sub). You can rent these cheaply almost anywhere. For larger groups, a proper sound system. If you're DJing: a laptop with Traktor, Rekordbox, or Serato, plus a controller. If you're not: curated playlists work. Playlist ideas in the Sonic Palette.
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Requirement Three
Cacao or tea — optional
Ceremonial cacao is beautiful but not required. A simple herbal tea served in a circle achieves most of the same effect. The ritual matters more than the substance. Read plant allies for guidance.
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Requirement Four
You
The most important element. Your presence, your voice, your willingness to hold the space even when it gets awkward — the first 20 minutes are always a little awkward. You don't need to be an expert. You need to care about what's happening in the room.
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Running your first session — a simple 2-hour format

0:005 min

Welcome

Sit in a circle. Introduce yourself. Say what's about to happen. Explain the basics: barefoot, no talking on the dance floor, non-verbal consent. Keep it short.

0:0515 min

Tea or cacao

Serve warm. Drink together in silence. Each person shares one word of intention.

0:2015 min

Breathwork + body warm-up

Simple breathwork (box breathing or connected breath). Then walking dance or body isolation to get everyone moving.

0:3510 min

One partner exercise

Non-verbal consent practice. Or eye gazing. Or paired mirroring. Just one exercise that gets people connecting before the dance.

0:4560 min

Freeform dance

Put on your best playlist or DJ a wave. Ambient opening, build through organic house and tribal rhythms, peak, come down. Let the room do what it does.

1:4515 min

The Landing

Bring the music down slowly. Invite everyone to lie down for a few minutes of silence, with bowls or gentle voice if you have them. Then sit in a circle. A few words of gratitude. Each person shares one word about how they feel. Done.

That's it. Two hours. No fancy equipment needed. No training required. Just a room, some music, and the intention to hold space for people to dance and connect.

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Growing from there

Once you've run a few sessions:

Add more exercises

Browse the chapters in the Solo Journey and The Tribe. Each one has exercises with philosophy attached. Add one new exercise per session. See what lands with your group. Drop what doesn't.

Extend the format

Move from 2 hours to 3, then to the full 4-hour Onizal Dance format with all five phases. The extra time makes a real difference. Two hours is a good dance. Four hours is a transformation.

Build a regular schedule

Weekly or bi-weekly works best for community building. Monthly is the minimum for maintaining momentum. One-off events are fun but don't build tribe.

Find your people

Your first few sessions might be small. That's fine. Word of mouth is how every ecstatic dance community grows. The people who come back are your core. Take care of them.

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Consent and safety — build the infrastructure

Ecstatic dance creates real vulnerability. The no-talking rule, the contact, the low lighting, the altered states. A good room turns that vulnerability into a gift. A bad room turns it into a problem. You, as the facilitator, are responsible for the difference.

What follows is the infrastructure I build into every session. Most of it comes from Seattle Ecstatica, who have spent decades writing this craft down in public. Credit to them for most of these patterns.

The seven agreements

Read these at the start of every session. Post them on the wall if you can.

  1. Consent is ongoing. A yes in minute one is not a yes in minute thirty.
  2. Ask before touching. Especially for lifts, weight-bearing, intimate holds.
  3. Read body language. Not everyone can say no out loud. Stepping back is a no. Freezing is a no.
  4. Acknowledge power. Regulars, teachers, and men carry more weight in the room. Check in more, not less.
  5. Receive no gracefully. No explanations required. No bargaining.
  6. Impact over intent. If you hurt someone, meaning well does not undo it.
  7. Collective responsibility. Everyone in the room watches for everyone else.
A shared non-verbal vocabulary

Because the floor is wordless, give everyone the same handful of signals:

Teach all three in the opening circle. Five minutes. It changes the room.

Someone to tend the heart of the room

In Seattle they call them HeartTenders. Trained consent ambassadors who stay on the edges of the floor, watch for trouble, and are the person anyone can approach if something goes wrong. You might only have yourself to start with. That is fine, but it is not enough once the room grows past about twenty people.

Once you have a regular community, train two or three trusted regulars to hold this role. Give them something simple to wear so people can find them. Let them know they can pause the dance if they need to.

After the event

Create a way for people to report incidents that does not require them to call you in the moment. A private email address. A form. Whatever works. Tell people it exists. Take every report seriously, even when it is about someone you love.

Set up a small support fund if you can. A few hundred euros held aside for a therapy session, a taxi home, a ticket refund. You will probably never use it. Having it sends the signal that you take care seriously.

If someone crosses a line

Handle it directly. Talk to them privately. Name what happened. Say what has to change. Give them a path back, if there is one. If the behavior repeats, or was serious to begin with, they do not return. Protecting the community means being willing to lose individual members.

There are documented cases, including one in San Luis Obispo, where organisers knew about predatory behavior and told the people being harmed to attend events elsewhere rather than remove the person. That is not community. That is protection of the abuser. Do not do that.

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Trauma-informed facilitation

Freeform dance, in the right container, releases stored stress from the body. People cry. People shake. People collapse. People remember something that has been sitting in their cells for twenty years and finally has permission to move. This is not a bug. It is the medicine. It also means you have to know what to do when it happens.

I am not a therapist. Most facilitators are not. That is fine. You are not doing therapy. You are holding a container where the body can do what the body already knows how to do. What follows is the baseline craft.

Why release happens at all

As Bessel van der Kolk writes in The Body Keeps the Score (2014), trauma is stored as a held pattern in the nervous system, not as a story. As Peter Levine writes in Waking the Tiger (1997), neurogenic tremoring is the body's innate mechanism for discharging accumulated stress. Stephen Porges on polyvagal theory. The research has been converging for decades. Sustained rhythmic movement, breath, safe contact, and a regulated room around the body let the system complete the response it could not complete at the time. Tears, shakes, involuntary tremors: this is the body discharging, not falling apart.

Your job is to keep the container stable while the body does the work.

Signs someone is in healthy release

All of this is normal. Do not intervene. Be nearby. Offer water when the wave is passing.

Signs someone needs direct support

Move closer. Offer water. Quietly ask if they want company or space. Do not try to fix what is happening. Slow the breath first, before anything else. A long exhale through the mouth is usually enough to start the nervous system coming down.

How to hold the room

Three things help more than any particular technique:

What to learn

Reading I have found useful. The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk. Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine. Caffyn Jesse's writing on what she calls the pulse model, which treats ecstasy, satisfaction, and integration as one cycle instead of three separate events. None of this turns you into a therapist. All of it makes you better at the part of the room that is not about the music.

If this work keeps calling you, get trained. Somatic experiencing. TRE. A facilitation training that actually covers trauma. The longer I do this, the more I think the training matters.

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The traditions behind this

Onizal is a synthesis. The practices inside this framework come from traditions that are much older than any of us:

Sufi whirling
Mevlevi tradition, 13th century
Qigong
Chinese energy cultivation, thousands of years
Cacao ceremony
Mesoamerican traditions
Contact improvisation
Steve Paxton, 1972
Tantra
Hindu and Buddhist tantric traditions
5 Rhythms
Gabrielle Roth, 1970s
Modern ecstatic dance
Max Fathom, Hawaii 2001

When you teach these practices, credit where they come from. Say "this is inspired by Sufi whirling" when you teach whirling. Say "cacao ceremony comes from Mesoamerican traditions" when you serve cacao. The lineage matters. Acknowledging it is how we keep the practice honest.

— Pricing your sessions —

Four models I've seen work.

Model I

Donation-based

Best for new communities. Removes the barrier to entry. Put out a jar or a QR code. People give what they can. Builds trust and grows attendance fast.

Risk: income is unpredictable
Model II

Sliding scale

Suggest a range (e.g. $10–30 or local equivalent). Let people choose. Honors different financial situations. Most people pay the middle.

Honors real life
Model III

Fixed ticket

Works once your community is established and people know what they're getting. Price based on your local market. Yoga class pricing is usually a reasonable benchmark.

Established community
Model IV

Membership / monthly pass

For regular weekly sessions. Discounted vs single tickets. Builds commitment and predictable income.

Predictable income

Whatever model you choose, be transparent about where the money goes. If you're splitting revenue with a venue or donating a portion, say so. Transparency builds trust.

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What to call your version

Call it whatever you want. You can say "Onizal Dance" if you're running the five-phase format faithfully. You can say "inspired by Onizal" if you've adapted it. You can give it your own name entirely.

What matters is the practice and the people, not the brand.

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Common questions

Do I need DJ skills?+
Helpful but not required. You can facilitate a beautiful session with curated playlists. If you want to learn to DJ for ecstatic dance, DJ Craft is a good starting point.
What if nobody comes?+
They will. Start with friends. Tell them to bring one person each. A session of 8 people is already a circle. The early sessions are for learning, not for filling a room.
What if someone has an emotional release?+
It happens. Someone cries, shakes, needs to sit down. Don't panic. Don't rush over. Be nearby. Offer water. Let them move through it. If they need to talk afterward, listen. If they need space, give it. The container holds them. You hold the container.
What about consent issues?+
Take them seriously. Read the consent chapter. Establish clear guidelines at the start. Have a plan for what to do if someone crosses a boundary. The short version: address it directly, privately, and with care.
Can I charge for this even though it's open source?+
Yes. Open source means the knowledge is free. Your time, space, and facilitation are worth paying for. Musicians play public domain music and still get paid for performing.
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